A breakup can cause you serious heartache when you’re still genuinely in love with the person that, up until a few days ago, was sharing a life with you. Their absence, these changes, no longer sharing sweet words before going to bed or when waking up… All of these things are making you realize how badly you want them back as quickly as possible, and it’s completely logical.
But maybe there’s something else that’s causing you pain as well. Sometimes just breaking up isn’t enough for your ex, so they decide to put a sizable amount of distance between you. Along with losing your relationship, you’ve lost all forms of communication with your best friend or this person that means so much to you.
But if you’re reading this article, it means that you’re ready to take some initiatives! So I have to congratulate you because you should never allow yourself to feel broken. There is a solution for every problem.
You’re looking for the best way to get back in touch, so you should be proud of yourself. Most people give up way too easily. However your willingness alone isn’t going to be enough so you’ll have to set certain actions into motion really fast if you want to get back together with your ex. Simply telling yourself I want to make my ex want me isn’t enough; It must become a priority in order not to end up completely disappearing from their life. In this article you’ll discover why, and more importantly how to proceed.
Why should you want to spark your ex’s interest?
First of all, it’s important to note that looking to make your ex want you doesn’t necessarily equate to trying to get back together…At least not at first!
You could very well just want to get back in touch without wanting to be in a relationship again. Many men and women don’t even try to reestablish contact with an ex because they feel like it would look like they’re trying to make their ex come back. It’s true that when you’re trying to move on you can severe all contact with your ex; but there are different ways to go about moving on. You can reestablish communication without having any ulterior motives.
I do realize that most of you that our site on a regular basis, and those of you that have just discovered it are here in hopes of learning how to get back together with an ex that you still love. Sparking their interest is going to be an essential step. After a breakup, anger and bitterness remain between the two people. Worse still, it can sometimes be so bad that your ex will no longer speak to you and they become a total stranger.
When you’re attempting to get back together, there are multiple important steps. It’s not possible to start your attempt before having accepted the breakup, before rebuilding your self-confidence and before understanding the root causes of the separation. This is the best way to pinpoint what actions need to consequently take place so that you can get back together with the one you love. There’s an important element that shouldn’t be overlooked: Communication! This is even more important if there’s already a distance between you.
The importance of second chance in love
Relationships can be very complicated and difficulties arise pretty often!
In fact every couple is faced with issues at some point or another, as a result of many factors that would be too long for me to explain here. You can learn more about them in our eBook. Misunderstandings, lack of communication, or even a single mistake can lead to breakups. That said a separation doesn’t automatically mean that feelings for one another disappear as well. In fact they sometimes become even stronger and it’s at this moment that you realize that your partner is your soul mate.
We are human beings and we make mistakes. You’re allowed to commit errors, to make wrong decisions, but sometimes these actions can break a relationship, especially in this day and age. I’ve realized that men and women are quick to end a real relationship without having made much effort to work on it. Nevertheless, don’t wave your white flag and think that you’re relationship can’t evolve after this. You have to believe in second chances in love because I know that you, just like everyone, deserves it!
Often right after a breakup, a reconciliation in love takes place and then the relationship flourishes. The separation creates an electroshock and you realize how important your partner really is for your happiness in love and the joy you feel on a daily basis. Sometimes you have to go through a difficult patch and experience some really heavy emotions in order for love to make an even stronger comeback.
Nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that your relationship should constantly be threatened with separation for it to improve, because this could have some negative effects. Remember that it’s never a good idea to throw an ultimatum at the person you love because this is certainly not a miracle solution.
Can I make my ex want me?
Your ex wants change… nothing more and nothing less!
This may seem simple, but I don’t want to give you false hope and tell you that it’s going to be easy. It’s hard to change over the long-term, but this is exactly what you’ll have to do and this is why coaching sessions are important for pinpointing what exactly needs to happen.
You still have to be yourself when you are trying to get back together with an ex, but you have to be a better version! This doesn’t mean that you should lose your identity, because if you do you’ll end up being the one that’s unhappy. The point is to give your ex a new and better image of you.
You have to become the best version of yourself. Goodbye to little errors and hello to never before seen qualities… This is how you’re going to grab your ex’s attention and spark their interest. You both have to move on from the breakup, and consequently you have to work on evolving so that you don’t make the same mistakes as before. This is the main thing to think about as you begin. The breakup didn’t happen by accident; there are reasons and explanations for it. A person doesn’t leave someone they’ve spent months or years with just because of a bad mood.
Finally, to spark your ex’s interest you have to be striking and touch on your ex’s emotions both directly and indirectly. To do this you’ll need a technique that I’ve revolutionized: Radio silence. Would you like to know more about this method of grabbing your ex’s attention? Then I invite you to read this article right away because it will explain to you how to design a perfect RS!
Your coach if you are telling yourself I need to make my ex want me again,